I was watching the show and saw Bethenny Frankel on talking about a divorce she is going through and the pain with the guilt of her being a failure and i was inspired. I am a big man and i am going through the same situation with the same amount of pain and guilt,however i was unable to try and fix my marriage. Bethenny was a breath of fresh air due to the fact that if someone as beautiful and perfect as her going through this, than i myself shouldn't feel so guilty and sad.Her pain and emosions are what i have been dealing with for 3 months because i love my wife more than anything and after being married for 19 years it has been the worst time i will ever go through. Thank you Ellen for saying your not a failure and thank you Bethenny for being on the show, it was like i was sitting there myself and i hope you both have a better new year and Bethenny is smoking hot!!!!.