I think every woman deserves to win these amazing gifts just because everyone one of us have their own volumn of issues. Some more tragic but not less important. Your a kind person who seems the type that would rather give than receive. My sister is the same way. It does become a problem at Christmas since she never wants to be outdone. Are you a Cancer? I bet your the same kind of wonderful pain in the ass who loves to give, give & give. God bless your thoughtfulness.