I feel for Bethenny. My husband and I were married for 26 years. His job was in a different state and I had no clue he was going to leave me. He never let on. He continued to send me "I love you" text and emails until the day he told me. He couldn't even tell me to my face.He abandoned our kids/grandkids and me. We have two grown children and a young child. He has almost no contact with any of them. Midlife, younger woman etc. changed him into a stranger.I too feel like a failure. I thought I had the fairytale. It's been less than six months and even though things are extremely difficult, I know I will survive this and you will too.