Divorce is so painful and for so many reasons. Although I know now how better off I am to be without my husband, it took a while to get here. The real lose was the idea of a marriage. One that I never really had. I don't know Bethany's realationship with her husband but I wish her the best and hope that horrible pain subsides. That pain can feel worse that a dagger in your heart and you feel some days like you can cry your face off but time does heal. It's said perhaps too often but it's the real truth.