I, too, am a friend of "Grace," although I've let the cat out of the bag in an email to you and revealed her real name. Not only has "Grace" endured the trauma of her husband completely flipping out by leaving her and their six children for Katie, after she befriended Katie and confided in her, but she also lost her brother recently in a tragic accident. The entire family has been through way too much. "Grace" has held up well under this pressure. She has kept her head up and continued to mother her children with love and patience while trying to figure out the right way to comfort her children and answer her questions. She is an inspiration.