Wow, Bethenny you sure got me crying when you said you were scared. I know how you feel and as I read all the other comments I am crying my eyes out. It is so hard to go thru seperation. The reason I feel like a failure is I have now been unemployed for over a year and a half, heavily in debt, I have no friends and my family does not know. My closest relative lives 600 miles away and will have to take me in with no job and no money. I don't even know where to come up with the money to move. Failure of a 22 year relationship, having to move 600 miles and start all over with nothing is scaring the daylights out of me, I don't know how people do it, I am just trying to get thru each day as I have also been sick for 2 weeks. Thank God for Ellen and thanks to Bethenny for making me not feel as alone as I actually am. Bless you and your show. I wish everyone could live by "Be kind to one another"