Thank you for telling her that Ellen! Not only did you tell that to Bethenny, but I heard you loud and clear. After 24 years of marriage, I find myself in the same place as Bethenny. I thought it was unreal she would feel that way about herself - and then I realized I said the same things to myself as well. Thank you for telling "us" we were not. You are a kind soul and you are appreciated and make a difference in more lives then I think you can imagine.