||I am recently widowed. I was married to a Vietnam-Nam vet for 25 yrs. we had 6 kids and 18 grand kids and 1 great grand child. I do not work and I live with my son, daughter-in-law and my 14, and 2 year old granddaughter. I was my husband's care giver for 4 years and my mothers for 3. They both had cancer, my mom 4 bouts and my husband in his throat, and both lungs caused from ancient orange that he was exposed to in Vietnam-Nam. All I can say is I was raised Navy and moved every 1 to 2 years until we were teenagers, and my father retired and moved us to Florida. I have been here ever since. I was born in El Centro, California, and one day hope to go back there even if it is just for a visit. I have a lot of family still there all over.