what I want most out of life is a second chance. I made a big mistake in 2005 by marrying the wrong guy, (no eye-rolling please) someone who lied about who he really is. It took a couple of years to reveal the truth and now I'm trapped trapped trapped by him, the $70 000 debt accumulated in my name, and his disability. The only way to get away is to sell the house and it won't sell. If he were out of my life I could lead a life with integrity, ya I can't retire until I'm 65 now but I'm not afraid to be poor. It took this life lesson to learn that I'm not afraid to be alone and that there is no shame in being single. Ladies learn from me!