||Mother of 2, Derek & Amber. Amber was paralyzed in a car accident at the age of 19, and my life is now dedicated to her care. It is so hard to work now, as I wind up losing my job when she has appt's. My credit card is maxed and Only God knows where we go from here. I am trying to get a night job, but have had no luck yet. I am a new Aflac agent but that is so slow and indefinite. My car is pushing 100k miles. $200 in food stamps doesn't go very far. I pray 2013 will be a better year for us!