Ellen, first off let me just say i'm such a big fan and i always see how you are truly a blessing to many people by providing them a second chance at happiness by helping them in need. I'm like to say I'm one of those people. I was raised by my grandmother who recently passed away and am left with the custody of my mental ill mother. I have no family willing to help and am working two jobs just to take care of myself and save up to give me mother a home. Unfortunately i had to put school on hold to focus on survival and providing the means for me and my mother. My grandmother always warned me that this day was going to come where i would have to become beyond selfless and be a caregiver. Im more than overwhelmed with such responsibility and more heart broken that I have no one by my side willing to help. Please help.