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Alyxiah Guerra
Name Alyxiah Guerra
Location Manson, Iowa
Age 45
Joined 298 days ago
Hobbies Would love to regain financial stability to go on a honeymoon with my husband of 4years on October 24th.Same as to take my kids to Florida, where they so miss. Helping others when I can, water skiing, boating, volleyball, softball, golfing, I am horrible but love to play, being creative in the kitchen-love it, most of all..just being with my husband and amazing kids, and my new granddaughter whom is 4months old, and beautiful, wish we could all just go away somewhere fun all together, I've never been financially able to give them much, but soon it will change.
About Me Mother of 3 girls, 22,21,and 19. My son is 15. I am a grandmother of a 4month old beautiful girl. And my second daughter is expecting in January with a girl. I went to Nursing School, but after clinicals, no, doctors are not God and have tantrums when called out. With God's direction and help, I plan on returning to college for my Psychology Certificate/Degree to help children/young adults whom have been sexually abused. After college, devote some of my paychecks towards starting a legal service strictly for parents whom are divorcing and deserve custody of their kids but have no financial means , due to being a stay at home parent. This happened to me and I have been through both exes having had and one currently does of Founded cases of child abuse against them, yet they were able to still obtain custody due to I do not have the money to afford an attorney as they did, and he does. Courts and lawyers and DHS do not care about the well being of our children , at least in the state of Iowa, the evidence I have is unbelievable that they do not, any common sense person can establish that outcome, however, common sense isn't what matters it is the mighty dollar. It is sad and pathetic, oh don't get me started lol. As you can tell I am a passionate person on many issues, and truly do wish I could just save so many people and change their lives for the better, if deserving, karma is real for a reason lol. Love to all and stand tall, head up, shoulder back as if you own this world, because you do, YOUR mind is your world and the possibilities are endless...never let go, we are too strong for that, we are women..mothers, sisters, daughters, granddaughters, friend, but we are REAL!! be true to yourself always so you can be true to others. Their is always a good with every bad, always, you just have to look a bit harder during those times, but it can be seen, remove the negative blinders from your eyes and you will see it...so put those big girl yogas on and tennis shoes, its a journey not a fashion show!!!!
Alyxiah Guerra
Win a New Car from Hyundai Hope on Wheels
233 days ago

Dear Ellen, thank you for your show and being you. I watch your show practically everyday, as well as your friend Bethenny. It is so nice to see that people do care, acts of humanity, giving to others that are in need. Grab a snack, this comment might be a book, however, I will try to keep it to the point. Being on my own financially was something I was always proud of since the age of 17 when my mother came home to the cops there. I had called them due to the ages of 4-17 my step father sexually abused me and raped me. The police told her it is him or I. She threw my car keys at me and 40.00 and told me to get out, and I am taking just what I came into this world with..NOTHING. So I left. (She knew about the abuse through the years and threatened to send me to a home if I told, and he would threaten to kill my mother and myself if I told anyone. She took me to a counselor and the counselor told her in front of me that it was my fault for walking from the bathroom to my room in a towel after a shower, and it was his way of making me his). I lived in my car, worked, showered at rest areas and saved enough money to move to Iowa where I had some family. I started nursing school. Met a guy, fell in love, became pregnant and married. I was so sick during my pregnancy that I could not get out of bed and had to quit nursing school. Being a mother was my job, and the best job in the world. He cheated and was abusive. I had no money for an attorney and Legal Aid would not take the case due to it being custody. I lost my two daughters due to the fact I had started working at a bowling alley that had two bars, no attorney so that was unfit. Remarried had two kids. Lost my job in Florida where we lived due to a hurricane taking away the spas on the beach. At this time we were already going through a divorce, so I had no job, the place I rented was from a man that our kids went to the same private school together , he was friends with my husband, I only had cash to pay for all my bills at the time, so I paid my rent in cash, he said I never paid and I was evicted. Homeless, no job again...yep lost custody of my other two kids. Legal Aid would not take the case, attorneys wouldn't take payments. I went at that time to Tennessee to take care of my real father that my mother re-married 13 years ago. I remarried, we moved to Iowa, due to all of my kids are here, (and yes my two exes live in the same town as well), my 15 year old son lives with me, due to the fact his father has a founded case of child abuse against my son. He pulled a gun on him, my current husband and myself. No charges were filed because we live in a town that has maybee 2,000.00 people in it and his family is very prominent. His father also receives Social Security for my son due to him being disabled(his father). His father doesn't help me financially. I have been cleaning at the apartment complex we live in for money. My husband is a full time student an hour away that costs 80.00 a week in gas, closest school for what he is studying. He is in his 3rd year. We had to get help for rent a year ago MIRHA, they cancelled our help due to my sons address for his school is his fathers. Now after his physical abuse, me supporting him for three of the years we were together financially , and constantly looking for other women, I had the strength to kick him out. I just got a letter from our landlord saying that Dec.1st I will be evicted. I am facing being homeless, selling everything I had worked so hard for, not to mention my son will have to move back in with his father , because I can not have him homeless. During this time I have also contacted NCIS regarding my case of child abuse and sexual assault on my step father, I am waiting to hear back from them. Their should not be a limitation statute on pressing charges against this act , especially if it occurred when the person was a minor. One thing is that I have never seen myself as a victim, always a survivor and looking forward. But this last blow has me so down, that life just isn't happy. Never could I end my life, god I am not like that. It is just so hard that breathing hurts. I am sorry if this is all random in facts,, but I am crying as I write this and praying that whomever you choose for this vehicle truly appreciates it and I know their lives with be much better in a way that could have never been possible without you. Please continue to be you and do what you do..you help so many people. Much love and blessings for you and to you.

Alyxiah Guerra
Drive a Hyundai
239 days ago

Dear Ellen, thank you for your show and being you. I watch your show practically everyday, as well as your friend Bethenny. It is so nice to see that people do care, acts of humanity, giving to others that are in need. Grab a snack, this comment might be a book, however, I will try to keep it to the point. Being on my own financially was something I was always proud of since the age of 17 when my mother came home to the cops there. I had called them due to the ages of 4-17 my step father sexually abused me and raped me. The police told her it is him or I. She threw my car keys at me and 40.00 and told me to get out, and I am taking just what I came into this world with..NOTHING. So I left. (She knew about the abuse through the years and threatened to send me to a home if I told, and he would threaten to kill my mother and myself if I told anyone. She took me to a counselor and the counselor told her in front of me that it was my fault for walking from the bathroom to my room in a towel after a shower, and it was his way of making me his). I lived in my car, worked, showered at rest areas and saved enough money to move to Iowa where I had some family. I started nursing school. Met a guy, fell in love, became pregnant and married. I was so sick during my pregnancy that I could not get out of bed and had to quit nursing school. Being a mother was my job, and the best job in the world. He cheated and was abusive. I had no money for an attorney and Legal Aid would not take the case due to it being custody. I lost my two daughters due to the fact I had started working at a bowling alley that had two bars, no attorney so that was unfit. Remarried had two kids. Lost my job in Florida where we lived due to a hurricane taking away the spas on the beach. At this time we were already going through a divorce, so I had no job, the place I rented was from a man that our kids went to the same private school together , he was friends with my husband, I only had cash to pay for all my bills at the time, so I paid my rent in cash, he said I never paid and I was evicted. Homeless, no job again...yep lost custody of my other two kids. Legal Aid would not take the case, attorneys wouldn't take payments. I went at that time to Tennessee to take care of my real father that my mother re-married 13 years ago. I remarried, we moved to Iowa, due to all of my kids are here, (and yes my two exes live in the same town as well), my 15 year old son lives with me, due to the fact his father has a founded case of child abuse against my son. He pulled a gun on him, my current husband and myself. No charges were filed because we live in a town that has maybee 2,000.00 people in it and his family is very prominent. His father also receives Social Security for my son due to him being disabled(his father). His father doesn't help me financially. I have been cleaning at the apartment complex we live in for money. My husband is a full time student an hour away that costs 80.00 a week in gas, closest school for what he is studying. He is in his 3rd year. We had to get help for rent a year ago MIRHA, they cancelled our help due to my sons address for his school is his fathers. Now after his physical abuse, me supporting him for three of the years we were together financially , and constantly looking for other women, I had the strength to kick him out. I just got a letter from our landlord saying that Dec.1st I will be evicted. I am facing being homeless, selling everything I had worked so hard for, not to mention my son will have to move back in with his father , because I can not have him homeless. During this time I have also contacted NCIS regarding my case of child abuse and sexual assault on my step father, I am waiting to hear back from them. Their should not be a limitation statute on pressing charges against this act , especially if it occurred when the person was a minor. One thing is that I have never seen myself as a victim, always a survivor and looking forward. But this last blow has me so down, that life just isn't happy. Never could I end my life, god I am not like that. It is just so hard that breathing hurts. I am sorry if this is all random in facts,, but I am crying as I write this and praying that whomever you choose for this vehicle truly appreciates it and I know their lives with be much better in a way that could have never been possible without you. Please continue to be you and do what you do..you help so many people. Much love and blessings for you and to you.